Hello All
I though I had better let you all know I am still around.
Having been in Alice since mid July, it is now getting a bit warm for weekend trips away but I will try.
The 7 day forecast reads..............39c, 38c, 38c, 35c, 35c, 36c, then back to 38c
Now that the weather has warmed up the tourist season is well and truly over, with only a stubborn few Backpackers and Grey Nomads remaining.
I think I have been here long enough to form some sort of opinion..........which is...........a nice place to visit but I don't want to live here......my six months will be enough for me.
Why you ask? maybe you don't LOL
Well, while there a lot of lovely people here, there also seems to be an abundance of what I call..........self appointed Big Fish in a relatively small pond.
Let me explain that statement............people who think they are "top shit" here, but in the real world of maybe Melbourne or Sydney would be eaten up and spat out very quickly indeed. The only reason they are employed at all is because this is Alice Springs.
As the old saying goes..............you pay peanuts and all you attract is monkey's.
OK moving on......................
The other thing I have noticed since temporarily rejoining society, is how material people have become.
If you don't have the latest IPhone or newest car then you are treated as some sort of Leper or Weirdo.
Personally I cannot understand why people are so eager to give away their hard earner money on things that, in the "big scheme of things" aren't really important at all.
This leads me to the next topic...................it is 2 years ago tomorrow (26th October) since my beautiful loving Mother Passed away.
Although I have travelled a lot of this country since, and seen a lot of things, I still miss her greatly and think about her every day.
Miss you Mum RIP
So I thought i would re post my "Reflections on Life" from 2 years ago, not only as a tribute but also as a reminder to those who have forgotten about the IMPORTANT things in life.
Next month is time for my 6 monthly review of the Camper and Ute and hopefully I may get a weekend away too.
Bye for now............
Reflections on Life
This
post is not one of my usual destination or trip based story, but then
again maybe it is.............. this one is a few ramblings of mine
about life's destinations and a bit of reflection.
A
year ago I made a few life decisions, I thought long and hard about
where I was in life, what I wanted out of life and future directions.
Maybe it was a mid life crisis, I don't know..........
Sometimes
we devote a lot of time to the things that don't really matter, yet
often forget to give time to the things that DO matter. We also tend to
devote a lot of time to being greedy and the quest to have the largest
Television or the best car in the street. With this in mind I concluded
that I needed to work until I was at least 85 years old to get
everything I would like.
If
I chose to lower my expectations a little I could achieve a lot of my
dreams a lot sooner, maybe not so comfortably, but I am 30 years younger
and if I retired at 85 years old it wouldn't be easy climbing up Uluru
or King's Canyon with my walking frame or getting into Twin Falls in
Kakadu with a mobility scooter.
With
all this running around in my head I chose to leave my office life in
Melbourne, the hustle and bustle and traffic woes to return to my town
of birth and spend some quality time with my elderly mother, who was
starting to slow down a little and needed a bit of help, interspersed
with regular camping trips.
Little
did I know how short that quality time would
be....................October 2012 was retirement, June 2013 my mother
had a stroke and after a hospital stay needed to go into assisted living
as doing basic things herself was no longer possible. September 2013
another stroke and major deterioration in mobility, sight, speech, and
awareness. October 2013 my beautiful loving mother lost her fight and
passed away.
The
point in all this is I chose to devote more time to the things that DO
matter. That choice enabled me to spend a lot of quality time with my
failing mother. The memories of the time we spent together, even in the
last days, when communication was difficult, will be cherished and
remembered far longer than that big TV or nicer vehicle I could have
purchased had I stayed in Melbourne. I am so grateful I made this choice
and got the chance to help my loving mother when she needed it most and
repay her for all the times she helped me unconditionally when it was
needed.
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| Mum 19/12/1922 - 26/10/2013 |
With tears we saw you suffer,
As we watched you fade away,
Our hearts were almost broken,
As you fought so hard to stay.
We knew you had to leave us,
but you did not go alone,
For part of us went with you,
The day you left for home.
Rest In Peace Mum all the pain and suffering is over. Thank you mum for everything I will never forget you and love you so much.
I
have treasured memories which I will never forget that are far more
valuable to me than having the largest satellite dish in the caravan
park.
So
I suppose this blog is just to remind people to be nice to each other
and to take the time to smell the roses and enjoy life. Don't get tied
up and stressed out trying to achieve something you think might make you
happy, but probably won't........concentrate on the things that really
matter.